I have been wanting to connect with my father, Richard Hartley 12/27/53 and have been unable to do so through previous mediums. I had one psychic/medium tell me she was unable to connect because either he was a "bad soul" (which is not the case) or he has been re born all ready. I'm not sure what to think. He had a "talk" with me a week before he died, saying he would always be with me. I can not feel him, nor have I been able to. I just need a sign, anything to calm my heart.