Well this is worth a shot since nothing else I have tried has worked. Quite a while ago I had to have my engagement ring cut off my finger due to swelling and I thought I had I thought I had put it in my bedside table and went looking one day and it wasn't there. I was frantic and asked my husband if he had seen it and he said oh yes I put it up in the kitchen cupboard so it wouldn't get lost. Okay I thought it is safe there until I could get it fixed. From there I got very ill and lost an entire year of my life but I got better and went looking for my ring one day and it wasn't in the cupboard so again I asked my husband where it was and he told me that he and I had thrown it into the wood stove and burned it. Now I know this is not true but if anyone has any idea where it really might be or if it is really gone for good I sure would appreciate knowing. Once I know for sure either I will find it and be happy or I will learn the truth and be at least settled and thank you to anyone that can give me any ideas on this.